The MEN of our GrandFathers generation needed mental and emotional mending. In acknowledging that fact, can we admit they were ON TO SOMETHING. Since that time, the Roles within the family have become BLENDED OR ERASED. A good portion of our Mothers don't realize the emotional and NUTRITIONAL nurturing of the family IS THEIR PRIMARY DUTY!! Most times, our Males don't KNOW their presence in the lives of their children is MUCH MORE valuable than the PRESENTS. If we don't regain ROLES in the family