Think of a white wedding theme, and typically a snarly-faced ’80s rocker pops into your head. But with all apologies to Mr. Idol, it’s actually a unique and chic way to celebrate your special day.

A viral TikTok video featuring the mother of the groom wearing all white to her son’s wedding has sparked a divide on social media. TikTok/nikita18xo “It’s the bride’s day, not hers.